Abafuna Umhlangano Ubuso Nobuso

 

1. Funda

Ingxenye engaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi yoMgudu wakho Obalulekile

Isu lakho lokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi lizogqugquzelwa ukuqeqeshwa kwakho kwe-DMM. Njengoba abafunayo bethola, babelane, futhi belalela, uzofuna ukuhlangana nabo mathupha.

Cabanga ngesibonelo seNdlela Ebucayi esinyathelweni esedlule:

  1. Umfuni uvezwa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana
  2. Umfuni uqala inkhulumomphendvulwano yezindlela ezimbili nenkonzo yezindaba
  3. Umfuni ulungele ukuhlangana nomenzi wabafundi ubuso nobuso
  4. Umfuni wabelwa umenzi wabafundi
  5. Umenzi wabafundi uzama ukuxhumana nomfuni 
  6. Umenzi wabafundi usungula ukuxhumana nomuntu ofunayo
  7. Umhlangano wokuqala uyenzeka phakathi komfuni nomenzi wabafundi
  8. U-Seer uphendula ngokuhlanganyela iZwi likaNkulunkulu nabanye futhi aqale iqembu
  9. Umfuni uzibandakanya neqembu ekutholeni, ekwabeni, nasekulaleleni iZwi likaNkulunkulu 
  10. Iqembu lifika eqophelweni lokubhabhadiswa, libe yibandla
  11. Isonto liyandisa amanye amabandla
  12. Umnyakazo Wokwenza Abafundi

Amatshe okunyathela abalulekile 5-12 ngenhla akha ingxenye engaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi yeNdlela Ebucayi. Ngakho isu lakho lokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi lizogcwalisa eminye imininingwane yokuthi uzokwenza kanjani ukufeza lezi zinyathelo zokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi. Uhlelo lwakho olungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi lungase luqaphele izindima ezidingekayo, iphrothokholi yokuvikela edingekayo, kanye/noma amathuluzi noma amakhono okwabelana ngeVangeli ozowabeka kuqala. Futhi, ukuqeqeshwa nombono wakho we-DMM, kanye nomongo wakho nolwazi (oluqhubekayo) luzoba nomthelela omkhulu esu lakho lokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi. Ngezansi kunokucatshangelwa okwengeziwe nezisetshenziswa eziwusizo ongase uzithole ziwusizo ekwenzeni isu lakho lokungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi elizosiza abafuna ukuya phambili.


Nquma ukuthi kuzokwenzekani lapho ofunayo ebonise isithakazelo sokuhlangana ubuso nobuso noma ukuthola iBhayibheli. 

  • Ubani ozoba lowo oxhumana nomuntu othile ofuna okuthile?
  • Iluphi uhlobo lwenqubo yokuxhumana ozoyisebenzisa ukuze abasebenzi bazi ukuthi kufanele baxhumane nobani futhi nini?
  • Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuthi lowo odingayo alinde ukuthintana naye okokuqala?
  • Uzobahlela futhi ubalandele kanjani abathintwayo?
    • Cabangela ukuqala ngesizindalwazi sokuxhumana esilula nesisebenzisana nethimba lakho (isb Abafundi.Amathuluzi)
    • Ungakugwema kanjani ukuthi oxhumana nabo bawele emifantwini?
    • Yiluphi ulwazi oludinga ukurekhodwa?
    • Ubani ozoqapha inqubekelaphambili yabo?


Hlela ukuthi uzozama kanjani ukuthintana nomuntu ofuna ukuhlangana naye ubuso nobuso.

  • Izoba yini indlela yakho yokuxhumana?
    • Ucingo
    • Uhlelo lokusebenza lokuthumela imiyalezo (okungukuthi i-WhatsApp)
    • Umlayezo wombhalo
  • Uzothini noma uzobuzani?
  • Izoba yini imigomo yakho?
    • Qinisekisa ukuthi bangabafuna ngempela futhi abayona ingozi yokuvikeleka?
    • Sungula isikhathi somhlangano esihleliwe nendawo?
    • Bameme ukuthi balethe omunye umuntu ofuna?

Lapho ofuna ukudlula izandla eziningi, kulapho angathola khona okunamathelayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi unciphise inani lokukhishwa ngesandla koxhumana naye ngoba akuvamile ukuphumelela. Laba ngabantu bangempela ababeka ukuphila kwabo engozini ukuze bakwethembe. Uma ubhekene nesimo lapho umenzi wabafundi engasakwazi ukuhlangana nomuntu, lokho kunikezwa kumenzi wabafundi omusha kufanele kusingathwe ngokunakekela okukhulu, ngothando nangomthandazo.


Funda ulimi, uma kusebenza.

  • Gxila ekufundeni kwakho ulimi kusilulumagama esingokomoya esizokulungiselela ukuhlangana nabafunayo nabantu bokuthula.
  • Kungase kudingeke ukuthi uzijwayeze amakhono ocingo noma ube nesifundo sokuthumela imiyalezo uma uzomisa ama-aphoyintimenti ngezingcingo noma ngemiyalezo.


Qala kancane.

  • UNGAZIQALISA wedwa. Awudingi ukuthi abanye bavule ikhasi lenkundla yezokuxhumana, baxoxe nabafunayo ku-inthanethi, futhi uhlangane nabo ubuso nobuso uwedwa. Qala ngalokho onakho bese ubheka lokho okudingayo.
  • Ekugcineni, kungase kudingeke ucabangele indlela yokubandakanya iqembu elikhulu labantu ohlelweni lwakho lokulandelela (qiniseka ukuthi wonke umuntu uhambisana nombono.)
    • Ingabe udinga iqembu ukwenza lokhu?
    • Ingabe udinga ukwakha umfelandawonye nabanye asebevele bakhona?
    • Ingabe udinga ukuqeqesha nokusebenzisana nabalingani bezwe ukuze ubone lokhu kufezwa?
  • Yini enye endleleni yakho ebalulekile oyidingayo ukuze uyigcwalise ngemininingwane?


2. Gcwalisa Incwadi Yokusebenzela

Ngaphambi kokumaka le yunithi njengephelele, qiniseka ukuthi uqeda imibuzo ehambisana nayo encwadini yakho yokusebenzela.


3. Hamba ujule

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