I-Social Media Ministry ekugcineni imayelana nabantu. Abantu abahlukumezekile, abakhungathekile, abalahlekile, abadidekile, nababuhlungu. Abantu abadinga izindaba ezinhle zikaJesu ukusiza ukuphulukisa, ukuqondisa, ukucacisa, nokubanikeza ithemba ezimpilweni zabo eziphukile kanye nalomhlaba ophukile. Isidingo sokuthi sibambisane kahle nabantu asikaze sibaluleke kakhulu. Ezweni elibheka abantu ngokushesha, kudingeka sibe yilabo abasebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana ukuze sibone abantu abathandwa uNkulunkulu futhi uJesu abafela ukuze abasindise.
Imali yenkundla yezokuxhumana ukusebenzelana. Ngaphandle kokuxhumana okuthunyelwe kwakho akubukwe, izethameli zakho azikuboni, futhi umlayezo awabiwa. Futhi uma izindaba ezihamba phambili zingabiwa, ngakho-ke siyalahlekelwa sonke. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umgomo wawo wonke amaposi uwukuvusa ubudlelwano. Yonke indaba, wonke ama-reel, konke okuthunyelwe, konke okuthunyelwe kabusha, wonke amazwana, akha ukubandakanyeka. Abantu othemba ukubafinyelela kumele baxhumane nawe ngezinkundla zokuxhumana.
Usebenzisana kanjani nalaba bantu ngendlela engcono kakhulu? Yiziphi ezinye zezinsika zokwakha ukuzibandakanya okungaguquki enkonzweni yakho yezokuxhumana? Cabangela lezi zinsika ezi-4 zokusebenzisana ukuze zikusize wakhe inkonzo yakho futhi ufinyelele abantu ongakaze ubafinyelele ngaphambilini.
- Umsebenzi: Ukuvumelana kunomvuzo oqondile ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Abantu uJesu afuna ukubafinyelela babona uhide lwezigxobo usuku nosuku. Izinhlangano ezithumela njalo zinokuxhumana okungaguquki ngoba ziyatholakala futhi zisebenza ngokungaguquki. Abagcini ngokuthumela lapho befuna, kunalokho babeka phambili umsebenzi wabo futhi babonakala njalo. Nabo abakuboni uma ungahlali usebenza. Kufanele ubeke phambili ukufinyelela kwakho kwezokuxhumana futhi kufanele uhlale usebenza ezikhaleni ofisa ukubona umthelela. Cabangela umkhuba wamasonto onke noma wanyanga zonke wokuhlela wonke umsebenzi wakho wenkundla yezokuxhumana futhi uhlale unjalo.
- Ubuqiniso: Wonke umuntu uyahlupheka uma ubuqiniso bungenziwa. Izithameli zakho zidinga ukuzwa izwi lakho langempela. Kufanele bazi ukuthi uyabakhathalela ngempela nezidingo zabo nezinto ezibakhathazayo. Bafisa futhi ukuthi kube nomuntu oxhumana nabo ezingeni lomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ubuqiniso bugqabula emicabangweni ecatshangwe ngaphambili futhi buveze ukuthi ungumuntu nje ofuna ukuxhumana nomunye umuntu. Yazi izwi lakho. Yamukela amaphutha akho. Yiba ne-typo njalo ngesikhathi. Yiba ngokoqobo esikhaleni esivame ukuchazwa izihlungi ezingelona iqiniso.
- ilukuluku: Ubuciko bokubuza imibuzo emihle buba ubuciko obulahlekile. Ukuhlala unelukuluku lokufuna izethameli zakho kuyisihluthulelo sokuthi bazibandakanye nokuqukethwe kwakho. Babuze imibuzo. Babuze imibuzo elandelayo. Thumela imibuzo elula yomusho ongu-1 ofuna ukwazi ukuthi bacabangani ngayo. Ngokwesibonelo, umbuzo olula obuza izilaleli zakho othi, “nicabangani ngoJesu” uyokwambulela izidingo zangempela nezizwayo okungenzeka ukuthi awukaze ucabange ngazo ngaphambili. Ilukuluku libonisa ukuthi siyazikhathalela ngempela izilaleli zethu, ukuthi siyazithanda izilaleli zethu. UJesu wasifanekisa lokhu kanye nabo bonke kusukela kuPetru, kowesifazane osemthonjeni, kuwe. Landela isibonelo sakhe futhi uhlale unelukuluku lokwazi.
- Ukuphendula: Ayikho into ebambezela inqubekela phambili ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngaphezu kokungaphenduli. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, akukho okungangeza inani elikhulu ekuzibandakanyeni nasemlayezweni kunokuphendula kahle nangendlela efike ngesikhathi ezilalelini zakho. Uma izethameli zakho zithanda, ziphawula, futhi zabelana ngokuqukethwe kwakho, phendula kulokhu ngokushesha nangentshisekelo yangempela kwabakwenzile. Izimpendulo zabo ziwukhiye ophelele wokuhlanganyela. Ubeka isiko lakho lenkundla yezokuxhumana ikakhulukazi ngalokho okugubhayo. Phendula futhi ubungaze izethameli zakho.
Lezi zinsika ezi-4 zokuzibandakanya zizoba yimbangela yokufinyelela enkonzweni yakho yezokuxhumana. Zama lokhu futhi ubone ukuthi yimiphi imiphumela ebuyiswayo. Ekugcineni, sifuna ukusebenzisa inkundla yezokuxhumana ukuze sifinyelele abantu. UJesu ufuna ukusebenzelana nabantu endaweni yesidingo sabo futhi unethuba lokusiza ukuhlangabezana naleso sidingo. Hlanganyela ngokugcwele nezilaleli zakho ngenxa yoMbuso nenkazimulo yakhe.
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