Apha kuMntla weIkhweyitha, imozulu iya isiba shushu kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba ixesha leeholide lisondela ngokukhawuleza. Ngelixa sicwangcisa amaphulo eKrisimesi kubulungiseleli bethu, usenokuba wenza izicwangciso zokuchitha ixesha nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho kwiinyanga ezizayo. KwaMII, oku kusenza sicinge nzulu malunga neyona nto siyithanda kakhulu ngeli xesha lonyaka. Ngokungaphephekiyo, incoko ibuyela ekuchitheni ixesha nabantu esibathandayo, sibalisa amabali malunga neminyaka edlulileyo. Enyanisweni, ibali leKrisimesi yenye yezinto eziqhuba ukwanda komthamo wokukhangela minyaka yonke. Amabali adluliselwe kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana angundoqo kumava oluntu.
Kwixesha eligcwele umxholo wedijithali odlulayo, ubugcisa bokubalisa amabali buhlala bungenasiphelo. Ukusuka kwiikampu ukuya kwiithiyetha, kwaye ngoku ukuya kumaphulo obulungiseleli bedijithali, amabali ebesoloko engumqolo wonxibelelwano lwabantu. Kubaphathiswa abajonge ukunxulumana nabaphulaphuli kwinqanaba elinzulu, ukwenza ibali elinyanzelisayo kubalulekile. Njengoko usakha amaphulo akho kwezi nyanga zimbalwa zizayo, nasi isikhokelo sokusebenzisa amandla okubalisa kubulungiseleli bakho kunye nomyalezo:
1. Qonda ukuba 'Kutheni'
Ngaphambi kokuluka ibali, kufuneka uqonde ukuba kutheni ubulungiseleli bakho bukhona. Ngokunokwenzeka, ukuqalisa kobulungiseleli bakho yayikukubalisa ibali likaYesu ehlabathini! Oku kuqonda kusebenza njengesiseko sayo yonke ibali oza kuyibhala.
2. Yazi ababukeli bakho
Ibali lilungile kuphela njengolwamkelo lwalo. Ukubandakanya abaphulaphuli ojolise kubo, kufuneka uqonde amaxabiso abo, amaphupha, kunye namanqaku entlungu. Olu lwazi lukuvumela ukuba ulungelelanise ibali lakho ngendlela efanelekileyo nenxulumeneyo.
3. Yiba Nenyaniso
Amabali okwenene asoloko etsala umdla kunawayiliweyo. Musa ukoyika ukwabelana ngobuthathaka okanye imingeni. Ubume bokwenyani bobungqina obuvela kubantu abeza elukholweni ngobulungiseleli bakho bunamandla kakhulu kuba buyinyani kwaye bunxulumene. Ezi zinto zenza ubulungiseleli bakho bube bobuntu kwaye bunxibelelene.
4. Misela uMxholo oseMbindini
Ibali ngalinye elibalulekileyo linomxholo ophambili obopha zonke iinkalo zalo. Nokuba kukuzingisa, ukusungula izinto ezintsha, okanye kuluntu, ukuba nomxholo ocacileyo kunokukhokela ibali lakho kwaye lilenze lidityaniswe. Qaphela, umxholo akusoloko kufuneka ube “luguquko” okanye ubizelwe kwisenzo. Rhoqo imfuno enxulumeneyo okanye umngeni unamandla ngokwaneleyo okuqhuba ukubandakanyeka kubaphulaphuli bakho.
5. Qesha i-Emotional Triggers
Iimvakalelo ziziqhagamshelo ezinamandla. Ulonwabo, ukulangazelela, kunye nethemba yimizekelo yeemvakalelo ezivuselela ukusabela ngokweemvakalelo ezinokuthi zenze uvakalelo oluhlala luhleli. Kodwa lumka - isibheno sakho seemvakalelo kufuneka sivakale sinyanisekile kwaye singakhohlisi.
6. Bonisa, Musa Ukuthetha Nje
Izinto ezibonwayo, nokuba zikwimo yeevidiyo, i-infographics, okanye imifanekiso, inokwenza ukubalisa kutyebe ngakumbi. Bancedisa ekuboniseni amanqaku, ukubeka iimvakalelo, kunye nokudala amava anzulu.
7. Hlaziya iBali lakho
Ibali lakho alimi ndawonye. Njengoko ubulungiseleli bakho bukhula, bujongana nocelomngeni, kwaye uphumeza izigaba ezibalulekileyo, ibali lakho kufuneka libonise ezi nguquko. Ukuhlaziya ibali lakho rhoqo kuligcina litsha kwaye lifanelekile.
8. Ukusebenzisana ngamaMediyam amaninzi
Ukusuka kwizithuba zebhlog ukuya kwiividiyo, iipodcasts ukuya kwiziqwengana zemidiya yoluntu, sebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokwabelana ngebali lakho. Iiplatifti ezahlukeneyo zibonelela abaphulaphuli abahlukeneyo, ngoko ke ukwahluka kuqinisekisa ukufikelela ngokubanzi.
9. Khuthaza umxholo oveliswe nguMsebenzisi
Eli licebiso elinamandla! Abaphulaphuli bakho mababe yinxalenye yebali. Ngokwabelana ngamava abo kunye nobungqina, awuqinisekisi nje ibali lakho kodwa ukwakha uluntu olujikeleze umyalezo wakho.
10. Ukungaguquguquki
Nokuba ukhetha ukulidlulisa njani ibali lakho, ukugcina ukungaguquguquki kwithoni, ixabiso, kunye nomyalezo kubaluleke kakhulu. Oku kuhambelana kuqinisa ukuqondwa kunye nokuthembela kubaphulaphuli bakho.
Eyona nto iphambili, ukubaliswa kwamabali kukunxibelelana. Ingxelo enyanzelisayo inamandla okuguqula abaphulaphuli abangakhathaliyo babe ngabathetheleli ababandakanyekayo. Ngokuqonda injongo yakho, ukuba yokwenyani, kwaye uqhubeka uvela, unokwenza amabali angapheleli nje ekukhuthazeni uphawu lwakho kodwa anxibelelane nzulu nabaphulaphuli bakho. Kulwandlekazi olukhulu lwedijithali, sinethuba lokubonisa ibali lentlawulelo, ukuxolelwa, kunye nethemba elihlala lingenakulibaleka.
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