Kwenzeka ntoni xa umntu enxibelelana nobulungiseleli bakho, kwaye akasaphenduli kwimiyalezo ethe ngqo? Amaqela oMphathiswa adla ngokucinga kakhulu malunga nokufikelela kunye nokunxibelelana nabantu kwi-Intanethi, kodwa imidiya yoluntu inika ithuba elinamandla lokukhulisa nokomeleza unxibelelwano olukhoyo - ngakumbi xa olo nxibelelwano "lubanda" kwaye luyeke ukuphendula.
Abaphathiswa beDijithali kufuneka bacinge malunga namaphulo osasazo oluntu ajonge ukubandakanya abantu osele uqhagamshelene nabo, kwaye abasaphenduli. Incwadana yeendaba yale veki ikubonelela ngeengcinga kunye nezicwangciso zokusebenzisa imidiya yoluntu ukuze uphinde udibanise abo sele bewuphendule umyalezo wakho weVangeli.
1. Nxibelelana rhoqo neZithuba xa Kunokwenzeka:
Enye yeendlela ezilula zokuzibandakanya noqhagamshelo lwakho olukhoyo kukunxibelelana ngokusebenzayo nezithuba zabo. Thanda, uphawule, okanye wabelane ngohlaziyo lwabo ukubonisa inkxaso yakho kwaye ugcine incoko ihamba. Amagqabaza okwenyaniso anokubangela iingxoxo aze omeleze amaqhina. Siyaqonda ukuba oku akunakwenzeka kuyo yonke imimandla yehlabathi apho abafowunelwa bakho banokungafuni ukwenza ubudlelwane bakho bubonakale esidlangalaleni. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, sinamacebiso amaninzi othethathethwano ngawe ngezantsi.
2. Imiyalezo ethe ngqo eyeyakho:
Ukuthumela umyalezo othe ngqo wobuqu kunxibelelwano kunokuhamba indlela ende ekuboniseni ukuba uyabuxabisa ubudlelwane. Nokuba ngumyalezo wokuvuyisana nabo kwimpumelelo yamva nje abathe bayithumela esidlangalaleni, okanye ukubamba nje ngokulula, umyalezo othe ngqo ungakhokelela kwiincoko ezinentsingiselo ngaphaya kweliso loluntu.
3. Yabelana ngomxholo ofanelekileyo:
Yabelana ngomxholo ohambelana nomdla woqhakamshelwano lwakho okanye ohambelana nezinto ozithandayo ezifanayo. Ngokwabelana ngamanqaku afanelekileyo, iividiyo, okanye iiposti, awuboneleli ngexabiso kuphela kodwa ukwabonisa ukuba ucinga ngezinto ezinomdla kuzo.
4. Bhiyozela iMilestones:
Ungaphoswa lithuba lokubhiyozela imihla yokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo somsebenzi, okanye ezinye izigaba ezibalulekileyo zoqhakamshelwano lwakho. Abantu babelana ngolwazi oluninzi kwi-intanethi, kwaye iqela lakho liyakwazi ukubona xa ezi ziganeko zisenzeka. Umyalezo wabucala ocingayo okanye umkhwazo kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo unokubenza bazive bekhethekileyo kwaye bexatyiswa.
5. Thatha inxaxheba kwiiNgxoxo zeQela:
Amaqonga eendaba ezentlalo amaninzi anamaqela okanye uluntu apho abantu abanengqondo efanayo bahlanganisana khona ukuze baxoxe ngezihloko ezithile. I-MII ikwakhuthaze amaqela ukuba akhe amaqela awo. Ukwamkela umntu kwisifundo seBhayibhile seqela elikwi-Intanethi kuya kuba ngumzekelo omhle apha. Ukubandakanyeka kwezi ngxoxo akubonisi nje ubuchule bakho kodwa kudala amathuba okunxibelelana kunye nokwabelana ngezimvo ngonxibelelwano olukhoyo.
6. Sebenzisa iiPoli kunye noVavanyo:
Bandakanya unxibelelwano lwakho ngokwenza ii-poll okanye uphando kwizihloko ezinomdla ofanayo. Oku akukhuthazi kuphela ukusebenzisana kodwa kukwabonelela ngokuqonda kwizinto abazikhethayo kunye nezimvo zabo.
7. Yazisa kwaye uphendule ngokukhawuleza:
Nanini na umntu ezibandakanya nomxholo wakho, nokuba ngamagqabantshintshi okanye ngumyalezo, vuma kwaye uphendule kwangoko. Oku kubonisa ukuba uyalixabisa igalelo labo kwaye uthatha inxaxheba ngokukhutheleyo kwincoko. Ukuba amaqela ethu athatha iintsuku okanye iiveki ukuphendula kunxibelelwano, kutheni kufuneka silindele ukuba baqhubeke nokuzibandakanya nathi?
Imidiya yoluntu ayithethi nje ngokuhlala uhlaziywa ngobomi babanye. Liqonga elisivumela ukuba senze, sikhulise, kwaye someleze ubudlelwane. Ngokusebenzisa ezi zicwangciso, ungasebenzisa imidiya yoluntu ukubandakanya unxibelelwano lwakho ngeendlela ezinentsingiselo kunye nefuthe, ekugqibeleni utyebisa ubudlelwane bakho bobuqu kunye nokomoya.
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Indwendwe Thunyelwe ngu IMedia Impact International (MII)
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