Kwenzekani uma othile esexhumene nenkonzo yakho, futhi engasayiphenduli imilayezo eqondile? Amaqembu ezinkonzo ajwayele ukucabanga kakhulu mayelana nokufinyelela nokuxhumana nabantu ku-inthanethi, kodwa inkundla yezokuxhumana inikeza ithuba elinamandla lokukhulisa nokuqinisa ukuxhumana okukhona - ikakhulukazi uma lokho kuxhumana "kubanda" futhi kuyeka ukuphendula.
Umnyango wedijithali kufanele ucabange ngemikhankaso yenkundla yezokuxhumana ehloselwe ukuphinde uhlanganyele nabantu osuvele uxhumene nabo, futhi abangasaphenduli. Incwadi yezindaba yaleli sonto ikunikeza imibono namasu okusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana ukuze uphinde uhlanganyele nalabo asebewuphendulile umyalezo wakho weVangeli.
1. Hlanganyela Njalo Nokuthunyelwe lapho Kungenzeka:
Enye yezindlela ezilula zokuxhumana nabantu oxhumene nabo ukuthi usebenzisane ngokukhuthele nabakuthumele. Thanda, ubeke amazwana, noma wabelane ngezibuyekezo zabo ukuze ubonise ukweseka kwakho futhi ugcine ingxoxo ihamba. Ukuphawula okuqotho kungavusa izingxoxo futhi kuqinise ubuhlobo. Siyaqonda ukuthi lokhu akwenzeki kuzo zonke izindawo zomhlaba lapho oxhumana nabo bengase bangafuni ukwenza ubudlelwano bakho bube sesidlangalaleni. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, sinamathiphu amaningi okuzibandakanya ngezansi.
2. Imilayezo Eqondile Eyenziwe Ngezifiso:
Ukuthumela umlayezo oqondile womuntu siqu kuxhumo kungase kuhambe ibanga elide ekuboniseni ukuthi uyabazisa ubudlelwano. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umlayezo wokuhalalisela ngempumelelo yakamuva abathumele ngayo esidlangalaleni, noma ukubamba okulula, umlayezo oqondile ungaholela ezingxoxweni ezibalulekile ngaphandle kweso lomphakathi.
3. Yabelana Ngokuqukethwe Okuhlobene:
Yabelana ngokuqukethwe okuhambisana nezintshisekelo zabaxhumene nawe noma okuhambisana nezinkanuko zakho ezijwayelekile. Ngokwabelana ngezindatshana ezifanele, amavidiyo, noma okuthunyelwe, awunikezi nje kuphela inani kodwa futhi ubonisa ukuthi ucabanga ngezinto abazithakaselayo.
4. Gubha Ama-Milestones:
Ungaphuthelwa yithuba lokugubha izinsuku zokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo somsebenzi, noma ezinye iziqophamlando zokuxhumana kwakho. Abantu babelana ngolwazi oluningi ku-inthanethi, futhi ithimba lakho liyakwazi ukubona uma le micimbi isenzeka. Umlayezo oyimfihlo ocabangayo noma ukumemeza enkundleni yakho yezokuxhumana kungenza bazizwe bekhethekile futhi baziswa.
5. Bamba iqhaza Ezingxoxweni Zeqembu:
Izinkundla eziningi zokuxhumana zinamaqembu noma imiphakathi lapho abantu abanomqondo ofanayo behlangana khona ukuze baxoxe ngezihloko ezithile. I-MII iphinde yakhuthaza amaqembu ukuthi azakhele amaqembu awo. Ukwamukela umuntu esifundweni seBhayibheli seqembu eliku-inthanethi kungaba isibonelo esihle lapha. Ukuzibandakanya kulezi zingxoxo akubonisi nje kuphela ikhono lakho kodwa futhi kudala amathuba okuxhumana nokwabelana ngemininingwane nabaxhumi abakhona.
6. Sebenzisa Izinhlolovo nezinhlolovo:
Bandakanya oxhumana nabo ngokudala izinhlolovo noma izinhlolovo ngezihloko enizithakaselayo nobabili. Lokhu akugcini nje ngokukhuthaza ukusebenzisana kodwa futhi kunikeza nokuqonda kulokho abakuthandayo nemibono yabo.
7. Vuma Futhi Uphendule Ngokushesha:
Noma nini lapho othile ezibandakanya nokuqukethwe kwakho, noma ngabe ukuphawula noma umlayezo, vuma futhi uphendule ngokushesha. Lokhu kukhombisa ukuthi uyakwazisa okokufaka kwabo futhi ubamba iqhaza elikhulu engxoxweni. Uma amaqembu ethu ethatha izinsuku noma amasonto ukuphendula kothintwayo, kungani kufanele silindele ukuthi aqhubeke nokuxhumana nathi?
Inkundla yezokuxhumana ayigcini nje ngokuhlala unolwazi ngezimpilo zabanye. Kuyinkundla esivumela ukuthi sakhe, sikhulise, futhi siqinise ubudlelwano. Ngokusebenzisa lawa maqhinga, ungasebenzisa inkundla yezokuxhumana ukuze uxhumane noxhumana nabo ngezindlela eziphusile nezinomthelela, ekugcineni ucebise ubudlelwano bakho bomuntu siqu nobungokomoya.
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