Ndimenza njani uMntu?

Ukukhangela Abantu Abasenokuba Noxolo

Injongo yomntu kukwenza umlinganiswa oyintsomi omele abaphulaphuli bakho.

Indima ephambili kwiintshukumo zophindaphindo luluvo loMntu woXolo (Bona uLuka 10). Lo mntu unokuba okanye angabi likholwa ngokwabo, kodwa badla ngokuvula inethiwekhi yabo ukuze bafumane kwaye baphendule kwiVangeli. Oku kuthanda ukukhokelela kwizizukulwana zokuphindaphinda
abafundi neecawe.

I-Media ukuya ekubeni ngaBafundi iQhinga leNtshukumo lijongile hayi kuphela abafuni kufuneka ngokufanelekileyo uMntu woXolo. Ke, inketho onokuthi uyithathele ingqalelo iya kuba kukuseka umlinganiswa oyintsomi owenzayo kwinto yokuba uMntu woXolo kumxholo wakho unokujongeka njani.

Yintoni esiyaziyo Ngabantu Boxolo? Oko kukuthi, bathembekile, bayafumaneka kwaye bayafundiseka. Angathini umntu othembekileyo, okhoyo, ofundisekayo kwimeko yakho?

Olunye ukhetho inokuba kukukhetha icandelo labemi okholelwa ukuba liya kuba lelona ziqhamo kwaye usekele umlinganiswa wakho wePersona kwelicandelo. Nokuba yeyiphi na inketho oyikhethayo, nanga amanyathelo okudala i-Persona esekwe kweyakho
abantu ekujoliswe kubo.  

Amanyathelo okudala uMntu

Inyathelo 1. Yima ucele ubulumko kuMoya oyiNgcwele.

Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba “ukuba ke ubani kuni uswele ubulumko, makacele kuThixo, onika bonke engenakumbi, engangcikivi; wobunikwa” Yakobi 1:5. Eso sisithembiso emasibambelele kuso, bahlobo.

Inyathelo 2. Yenza uxwebhu ekwabelwana ngalo

Sebenzisa uxwebhu lwentsebenziswano kwi-intanethi njenge Google Docs apho lo Mntu unokugcinwa kwaye ubhekiselelwe rhoqo ngabanye.

Inyathelo lesi-3. Thatha uluhlu lwabaphulaphuli bakho ekujoliswe kubo

Uphononongo oluFanelekileyo olukhoyo loPhando

Loluphi uphando esele lukhona kubaphulaphuli ojolise kubo?

  • Uphando lobuthunywa
  • Uphando lombutho
  • Ukusetyenziswa kwemidiya

Hlaziya naluphi na uHlahlelo olukhoyo

Ukuba sele usebenzisa iwebhusayithi, thatha ixesha lokwenza ingxelo kwi-analytics.

  • Bangaphi abantu abeza kwindawo yakho
  • Bahlala ixesha elingakanani? Ngaba bayabuya? Yintoni abayenzayo xa bekwisayithi yakho?
  • Ngeliphi ixesha abayishiya indawo yakho? (umlinganiselo wokugqabhuka)

Bayifumana njani indawo yakho? (ukuthunyelwa, intengiso, ukukhangela?)

  • Ngawaphi amagama aphambili ababewakhangela?

Inyathelo lesi-4. Phendula oo-W abaThathu

Ekuqaleni i-persona yakho iya kuba yi-hypothesis okanye uqikelelo olusekwe kwindlela obazi ngayo abaphulaphuli bakho. Qala ngento oyaziyo kwaye wenze isicwangciso sendlela yokwemba nzulu kwaye uzuze ngakumbi ukuqonda.

Ukuba ungowangaphandle kwiqela lakho labantu ekujoliswe kulo, kuya kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi uphanda i-persona yakho okanye uthembele kakhulu kwiqabane lasekhaya ukunceda ukubumba umxholo kubaphulaphuli ojolise kubo.

Ngoobani abaphulaphuli bam?

  • Ingaba bangakanani?
  • Ngaba bayaphangela?
    • Sithini isimo sabo somsebenzi?
    • Uthini umvuzo wabo?
  • Sithini isimo sabo sobudlelwane?
  • Bafunde kangakanani?
  • Ithini imeko yabo yezentlalo nezoqoqosho?
  • Bahlala phi?
    • Edolophini? Kwilali?
    • Bahlala nabani?

Umzekelo: UJane Doe uneminyaka engama-35 ubudala kwaye ngoku ungumgcini-mali kwigrosari encinci yasekuhlaleni. Akatshatanga emva kokwahlukaniswa ngumfana wakhe kwaye uhlala nabazali kunye nomntakwabo. Wenza kuphela imali eyaneleyo ngokusebenza kwigrosari ukuze ahlawule umnakwabo
amatyala enyanga zonyango...  

Baphi abaphulaphuli xa besebenzisa amajelo eendaba?

  • Ngaba basekhaya kunye nosapho?
  • Ngaba kungokuhlwa emva kokuba abantwana belele?
  • Ngaba bakhwela i-metro phakathi komsebenzi nesikolo?
  • Ngaba bodwa? Ngaba bakunye nabanye?
  • Ngaba ngokuyintloko basebenzisa imidiya ngefowuni, ikhompyutha, umabonwakude, okanye itablet?
  • Zeziphi iiwebhusayithi, ii-apps abazisebenzisayo?
  • Kutheni besebenzisa imidiya?

Ufuna benze ntoni?

  • Kutheni benokuya kwiphepha/isayithi lakho?
    • Yintoni intshukumisa yabo?
    • Yintoni abayifunayo ukuba umxholo wakho unokubanceda bafezekise iinjongo zabo kunye nemilinganiselo yabo?
    • Kukweliphi inqanaba lohambo lwabo lokomoya apho umxholo wakho ungadibana nabo?
  • Sithini isiphumo ofuna ukuba senzeke ngamanqaku ahlukeneyo othethathethwano?
    • Umyalezo wabucala kuwe kwiphepha lakho lemidiya yoluntu?
    • Yabelana ngomxholo wakho nabanye?
    • Ingxoxo yokwandisa uthethathethwano kunye nabaphulaphuli?
    • Funda amanqaku kwiwebhusayithi yakho?
    • Bize wena?
  • Ufuna ukuba bafumane njani umxholo wakho?

Inyathelo lesi-5. Chaza ubomi balo mntu ngokweenkcukacha.

  • Ziziphi izinto abazithandayo, abangazithandiyo, abazinqwenelayo, nezinto abazikhuthazayo?
  • Ngawaphi amanqaku abo entlungu, iimfuno ezizivayo, imiqobo enokubakho?
  • Baxabise ntoni? Bazazisa njani?
  • Bacinga ntoni ngamaKristu? Luhlobo luni lonxibelelwano abaye baba nalo? Waba yintoni umphumo?
  • Baphi kuhambo lwabo lokomoya (umz. Abanamdla, befuna ukwazi,
    ukujongana? Chaza amanyathelo ohambo olufanelekileyo abanokuluthabatha
    kuKristu.

Eminye imibuzo ekufuneka uyiqwalasele:

Umzekelo: UJane uvuka rhoqo ekuseni ukuba athathe i-shift shift kwi-grocery aze abuyele ekhaya ebusuku ukuze azalise kwaye athumele kwakhona kubaqeshi kwindawo yakhe yobuchwephesha. Uchitha ixesha nabahlobo bakhe xa ekwazi kodwa uva umthwalo wokunceda usapho lwakhe. Kwakukudala wayeka ukuya kwiziko lonqulo lasekuhlaleni. Usapho lwakhe lusaya kwiiholide ezikhethekileyo kodwa uzifumana esiya encipha. Akaqinisekanga ukuba uyakholelwa ukuba ukho uThixo kodwa unqwenela ukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo

Umzekelo: Yonke imali kaJane iya kwiindleko zonyango zomntakwabo. Ngenxa yoko, akakwazi kuphumelela ngokwezimali. Ufuna ukuzisa uzuko kwintsapho yakhe nakwisiqu sakhe ngendlela akhangeleka ngayo nangendlela anxiba ngayo kodwa ukufumana imali yokwenza oku kunzima. Xa enxibe iimpahla/izithambiso zakudala ezithile uye avakalelwe kukuba wonke umntu okufutshane naye uyaqaphela—unqwenela ukuba ebenemali yokuhlala neemagazini zefashoni azifundayo. Abazali bakhe basoloko bethetha ngendlela abanqwenela ngayo ukufumana umsebenzi ongcono. Mhlawumbi ke bebengayi kuba setyaleni elingako.

Umzekelo: Ngamanye amaxesha uJane uyazibuza ukuba kufuneka aqhubeke ecela abazali bakhe imali yokuphuma kunye nabahlobo bakhe kodwa abazali bakhe bagxininisa ukuba kulungile kwaye, nangona ezibuza, uthanda ukuphuma kunye nabahlobo bakhe kakhulu ukuba acinezele umcimbi. Abazali bakhe bathetha ngokufuthi ngenkxalabo yabo yokuba abayi kuba nokutya okwaneleyo—oku kongezelela ingcinezelo engazi nto kubomi bukaJane yaye kwandisa iimvakalelo zakhe zokuba ngumthwalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba wayekwazi ukuphuma kungangcono macala onke kumntu wonke.

Umzekelo: UJane woyika ingcinga yokuba uyagula. Intsapho yakhe sele inamatyala awoneleyo kagqirha ekufuneka ewahlawule. Ukuba uJane ebenokugula ngokwakhe, aze aphoswe ngumsebenzi, ngokungathandabuzekiyo intsapho ibiya kubandezeleka ngenxa yoko. Singasathethi ke, ukugula kuthetha ukuvaleleka ekhaya; engeyiyo ndawo athanda ukuba kuyo.

Umzekelo: Nanini na uJane esiva inyikima okanye xa kuza iimvula ezinkulu, imvakalelo yakhe yokuxhalaba iyanyuka. Bekuya kwenzeka ntoni ukuba indlu yakhe ibinokutshatyalaliswa? Akathandi kucinga ngayo— umakhulu wakhe ucinga ngayo ngokwaneleyo kubo bonke. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ithi qatha engqondweni yakhe, “Kuya kwenzeka ntoni kum ukuba ndingafa?” Nanini na le mibuzo iphakama, ubhenela kubutofotofo bokucamngca aze anikele ingqalelo engakumbi kwihoroscope yakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha uzifumana ekhangela iimpendulo kwi-intanethi kodwa ufumana intuthuzelo encinci apho.

Umzekelo: UJane wakhulela kwikhaya apho nawuphi na umboniso womsindo okanye ukukhungatheka okanye naluphi na uphawu lweenyembezi luya kudibana nokuhlazeka ngokomzimba nangokweemvakalelo. Ngelixa ezama ukuphepha nawaphi na amabinzana anjalo ngoku, ngamaxesha athile uvumela umsindo okanye usizi lwakhe lubonise kwaye uphinde adibane namazwi ahlazisayo. Uyayiva intliziyo yakhe isiba ndindisholo ngakumbi kumphezulu. Ngaba kufuneka aphinde abe nenkathalo? Ngaba wayefanele aqhubeke enikela intliziyo yakhe aze azibonakalise ukuze ahlazeke? Akunjalo kuphela, kodwa uye waziqhelanisa nokuvala ubudlelwane bakhe nabafana. Ngalo lonke ixesha ezivulile kumfana, uye waphendula ngokuya kakhulu kwaye ethatha ithuba lokuba sesichengeni sakhe. Uziva eqaqadekile kwaye uyazibuza ukuba naluphi na ulwalamano olunokumenza azive ekhuselekile kwaye ethandwa.

Umzekelo: UJane uphuma kwimvelaphi yobuhlanga obuxubeneyo. Oku kubangela uxinezeleko oluthe kratya entliziyweni yakhe njengoko evakalelwa kukuba ukunxulumana nomntu omnye kuya kuthetha ukwenzakalisa umntu amthandayo. Amabali okruthakruthwano oludlulileyo phakathi kwabantu abahlukeneyo bobabini amenza ukuba aphendule ngokuthatha unyamezelo, isimo sokungakhathali ngamaqela eentlanga kunye neenkolo ezinamathele kuzo. Noko ke, “Ngubani yena? Yintoni yena?” yimibuzo athi ngamanye amaxesha azivumele ukuba acamngce ngayo – nangona engenathemba kangako okanye isiphelo.

Umzekelo: UJane uhlala ezibuza, “Ukuba andikho kwiqela elithile, uze ucinge ngendlela elenza ngayo eli theko; ndingawufumana umsebenzi? Akukho mntu waziyo ukuba le nkqubo yezopolitiko yangoku inokuqhubeka ixesha elingakanani. Ndingenza ntoni ukuba ayibambeki? Ndingenza ntoni xa kwenzekile?” UJane uyazibuza ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni; kuthekani ukuba eli okanye elo lizwe lithatha intambo? Kuthekani ukuba kukho enye imfazwe? Uyazama ukungacingi ngayo rhoqo kodwa kunzima ukungayenzi.

  • Ngoobani/bathemba ntoni?
  • Bazenza njani izigqibo? Ijongeka njani loo nkqubo?

Umzekelo: UJane uthatha amanyathelo akhe malunga nokuba yintoni inyaniso kwizenzo zabo bakufutshane naye. Uzigqala iZibhalo njengesiseko senyaniso kodwa uphenjelelwa kakhulu zizenzo zabahlobo nentsapho yakhe. UThixo, ukuba ukho, umele ukuba ungumthombo wenyaniso kodwa akaqinisekanga ukuba iyintoni na loo nyaniso okanye imchaphazela njani na. Ubukhulu becala uya kwi-intanethi, izihlobo, usapho kunye noluntu ngoko kufuneka akwazi.

Umzekelo: Ukuba uJane ebenokucinga ngokumazi ngenene uYesu ebeya kuzikhathaza ngokuba abanye bacinga ntoni ngaye. Wayeza kuzixhalabela ngokukhethekileyo oko kucingwa yintsapho yakhe. Ngaba abantu babeza kucinga ukuba uye wathelela elinye lamahlelo oyikekayo aziwa ngokuba likhona? Ngaba yonke into iya kwahluka? Ngaba ukwahlukana kwentsapho yakhe kwakuya kuba kubanzi ngakumbi? Ngaba unokubathemba abantu abamncedayo ukuba amazi uYesu? Ngaba bazama ukumkhohlisa?

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