Ngamafutshane, i-persona yintsomi, umboniso oqhelekileyo wonxibelelwano lwakho olufanelekileyo. Ngumntu ocinga ngaye njengoko ubhala umxholo wakho, uyila umnxeba wakho kwizenzo, uqhube iintengiso, kwaye uphuhlise izihluzi zakho.
Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wequla lamanzi elisembindini wedolophana yaye umzi womntu wonke ungqonge loo mthombo wamanzi. Kukho amakhulu eendlela ezahlukeneyo abantu belali ababenokuhamba ngazo ukuya kweli qula, kodwa oku akwenzeki. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ifom yendlela eqhelekileyo, ingca igugile, amatye asuswe, kwaye ekugqibeleni afakwe.
Ngokukwanjalo, zininzi iindlela umntu anomazi ngazo uKristu, njengoko umntu ngamnye esahlukileyo. Abantu abaninzi, nangona kunjalo, bathanda ukulandela iindlela ezifanayo kuhambo lwabo oluya kuKristu.
Kwintengiso, i-persona yintsomi, umboniso oqhelekileyo wonxibelelwano lwakho olufanelekileyo. Ngumntu ocinga ngaye njengoko ubhala umxholo wakho, uyila umnxeba wakho kwizenzo, uqhube iintengiso, kwaye uphuhlise izihluzi zakho.
Eyona ndlela ilula yokuqalisa kwi-persona yakho kukucinga ngale mibuzo mithathu ilandelayo. Unokwenza oku ngokwakho okanye uxoxe ngayo nabantu osebenza nabo.
Ngoobani abaphulaphuli bam?
Baphi abaphulaphuli xa besebenzisa amajelo eendaba?
Ufuna benze ntoni?
Indlela ebonakala inesiqhamo “kukudaniswa [inkolo ebalaseleyo kumxholo wakho]”. Abantu ababona uhanahaniso nokuba lilize elunqulweni badla ngokudinwa yimiphumo yalo baze baqalise ukufuna inyaniso. Ngaba le inokuba yindlela yakho nawe? Ngaba ungathanda ukufumana abantu besixeko sakho abahamba bemka kunqulo olungento yanto yaye unethemba lokuba kukho enye indlela?
Enye indlela yokujonga ubuntu bakho kukuqwalasela uhambo lwakho oluya kuKristu. Cinga ngendlela uThixo anokusebenzisa ngayo ibali lakho kunye nomdla wakho ekudibaniseni abo bamfunayo kunye naye. Mhlawumbi unamava ekulweni kunye nokoyisa iziyobisi kwaye unokuphuhlisa i-persona malunga naloo nto. Mhlawumbi iqela labantu ojolise kulo linomdla wokwazi ngomthandazo namandla awo. Umntu wakho unokuba ziintloko zekhaya eziya kufikelela kuwe ukuze zithandazele usapho lwazo. Mhlawumbi umtsha kraca elizweni kwaye unokudibana nabantu abathetha IsiNgesi kuphela. Abantu ojolise kubo inokuba zizithethi zesiNgesi ezidaniswe yiSilamsi, ubuKatolika, njl.
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